

One grows in the desert. It thrives in dry soil, intense daytime sunlight, and cool nights.
Too much water rots its roots. Shade stunts its growth.
What seems harsh to other plants is exactly what this flower needs.
It would have it no other way.
The other flower can only grow near water, perhaps in forested areas in the jungle.
It needs constant moisture, rich soil, humidity, and protection from direct sun.
Place it in the desert, and it won’t slowly “learn to cope” over time simply through exposure.
It will wither, no matter how strong or well cared for it is.
The environmental conditions will not allow it to survive.
Neither flower is broken. Neither is weak.
They are simply adapted for different environments.
Neurodivergent people are similar.
Differences in sensory processing, communication, attention, and emotional regulation mean
one environment can support one person but overwhelm another.
Expecting everyone to thrive under the same conditions misunderstands human variation,
just as placing a jungle flower in the dry desert sand misunderstands plant variation.
Adapting environments by reducing sensory overload, offering communication choices,
allowing movement, adjusting demands, or adding predictability does not lower expectations.
It gives individuals what they need to thrive.
Like flowers, the right environment doesn't change the person; it allows them to fully emerge.

Put simply, neurodiversity is the term for the natural range of biological brain differences
that impact how we think, feel, process, behave, and function,
often categorized as neurotypical or neurodivergent.
A neurotypical person thinks and behaves in ways considered typical,
while someone who differs is considered neurodivergent.
While the term neurodiversity is often cited as originally coined by Judy Singer, a sociologist from Australia, in her 1998 thesis, followed by a chapter in a book titled Disability Discourse,
“neurological diversity” and “neurodiversity” first appeared in print in the late 1990s through journalist Harvey Blume, who credited autistic-led online communities rather than any one person.
The term neurodiversity, neurodiversity theory, and the neurodiversity paradigm have been shaped collaboratively by groups of autistic and other neurodivergent individuals and activists. The shift toward viewing human differences in processing and cognition through a neurodiversity lens is a collective effort to challenge the medical model's narrow, deficit-based perspective, a view that highlights symptoms and prioritizes the appearance of normalcy. The medical model values typicality and urges individuals to conform, pressuring us all to fix any perceived deviations.
There is much more to say here, and if you would like to learn more,
I am working on several blog posts and resources to share additional information and perspectives. Additionally, please view the references cited below for further learning and clarification.
→ Learn more: “Alternatives to the Medical Model of Disability” (Blog post coming soon!)
→ Learn more: “The Neurodiversity Movement” (Blog post coming soon!)
A neurotypical person is thought to think, process, and behave in ways viewed as average
or typical for humans, according to the dominant society’s standards,
while someone who deviates from that is considered neurodivergent.
Both terms are neutral.
Both neurotypical and neurodivergent brains exist within a neurodiverse world,
reflecting variations in brain processing.
Neurodivergence covers brain differences present at birth or acquired through experience.
People can be multiply neurodivergent, having more than one neurodivergence.
The term neurodivergent is often used interchangeably with autism and ADHD.
Autism and ADHD are two types of neurodivergence.
Other forms of neurodivergence include Tourette syndrome, Down syndrome,
sensory processing disorder (SPD), obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, intellectual disabilities, synesthesia, hyperlexia, dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, traumatic brain injuries (TBI), and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
You do not need a diagnosis to be neurodivergent.
This is not an exhaustive list of all the possibilities.
For a clear explanation of language and the proper use of terms,
please read Dr. Nick Walker’s essay, linked here and cited below.
Recognizing neurodiversity matters because brains, like bodies and personalities, naturally vary. Differences in thinking, communication, learning, or emotion are parts of natural human diversity.
Understanding neurodiversity helps us avoid unrealistic standards
and unnecessary stress, shame, exclusion, or harm.
We can adjust environments to support participation, learning, connection, and success.
Understanding neurodiversity shifts our focus from “What’s wrong with this person?” to
“What do they need to thrive?” and this shift often leads to:
--> Better support, mental health, and relationships, and
--> More inclusive communities.
Thomas Armstrong, in Neurodiversity: Discovering the Extraordinary Gifts of Autism, ADHD, Dyslexia, and Other Brain Differences, advances a strengths-based perspective, proposing that neurological differences are natural variations rather than disorders. He argues that disability often results from unmet environmental or societal expectations, rather than inherent deficits.
Armstrong notes positive traits in neurodivergence, such as pattern recognition, creativity,
novelty-seeking, and idea generation, and suggests that systems should
support these strengths rather than force conformity.
For those with higher support needs or who experience significant challenges,
focusing only on strengths can feel minimizing. When real difficulties are combined with sensory, communication, or motor challenges and a lack of support,
a strengths-only view can obscure the need for resources.
For many neurodivergent people, disability doesn't vanish in well-adapted environments.
Recognizing this is crucial, especially for those with access to education, communication, and the means to shape the conversation. Without this balance, we risk focusing only on the most privileged neurodivergent voices while neglecting people whose quality of life depends on scarce supports.
→ Learn more: “The Neurodiversity Debate” (Blog post coming soon!)
Armstrong, T. (2010). The power of neurodiversity. Cambs, MA: De Capo Press.
Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN). https://autisticadvocacy.org
Baumer, N., & Frueh, J. (2021, November 23). What is neurodiversity? Harvard Health Publishing. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/what-is-neurodiversity-202111232645
Botha, M., Chapman, R., Giwa Onaiwu, M., Kapp, S. K., Stannard Ashley, A., & Walker, N. (2024). The neurodiversity concept was developed collectively: An overdue correction on the origins of neurodiversity theory.Autism, 28(6), 1591-1594. https://doi.org/10.1177/13623613241237871
Dwyer, P. (2022). The neurodiversity approach(es): What are they and what do they mean for researchers? Human Development, 66(2), 73–92. https://doi.org/10.1159/000523723
Edgar, H. (2024, March 23). What does being neurodiversity affirming really mean? The PDA Space. https://www.thepdaspace.com/blog/What%20is%20neurodiversity%20and%20why%20is%20it%20important
Fung K. L., & Doyle N. (2021). Neurodiversity: The new diversity. In L. K. Fung (Ed.), Neurodiversity: From phenomenology to neurobiology and enhancing technologies (pp. 1-18). Washington DC, American Psychiatric Association Publishing. https://doi.org/10.1176/appi.books.9781615379514.lg01
National Autistic Society. The neurodiversity movement. https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/identity/the-neurodiversity-movement
Singer, J. (1998). Odd people in: The birth of community amongst people on the “autistic spectrum”: A personal exploration of a new social movement based on neurological diversity. [Unpublished bachelor’s thesis]. University of Technology, Sydney, Australia
Walker, N. (2021). Neuroqueer heresies: Notes on the neurodiversity paradigm, autistic empowerment, and postnormal possibilities. Autonomous Press.
Xia, Y., & Wang, P., & Vincent, J. (2024). Why we need neurodiversity in brain and behavioral sciences. Brain-X, 2(2), e70. https://doi.org/10.1002/brx2.70
FAQ | Neurodivergence and Neurodiversity
"Neurodivergent" is a word used to describe brains that process, learn, and experience the world differently from what's considered typical (or "neurotypical"). It includes autism, ADHD, dyslexia, and many other neurological variations involving a variety of cognitive differences. Being neurodivergent isn't a disorder. Embracing neurodivergence is about challenging the idea of 'normal' and acknowledging and appreciating brain differences as a form of human diversity.
→ Learn more: “What It Really Means to Be Neurodivergent” (Blog post coming soon!)
Neurodiversity means that differences in minds and brains exist, and that there are many acceptable ways of thinking, feeling, communicating, and being. No two individuals are the same. The term ‘neurodivergent’ refers to brains that diverge from what is considered ‘typical’ according to standards outlined by society. The term ‘neurotypical’ refers to someone who is presumed to be developmentally typical.
Autism involves differences in social communication, sensory processing, and patterns of interest or routine. ADHD affects focus, attention, and regulation of energy or impulses. AuDHD is when both are present, leading to overlapping strengths and challenges, often a mix of high sensitivity and fast thinking.
→ Learn more: “Autism vs. ADHD vs. AuDHD: How They Overlap and Differ” (Blog post coming soon!)
Masking means hiding or minimizing natural traits to fit social expectations. It’s common among neurodivergent people, especially women and AFAB individuals. While it can help people feel accepted, long-term masking can have a negative impact on mental health and lead to exhaustion and burnout.
→ Learn more: “Masking Explained: Why So Many People Are Misdiagnosed” (Blog post coming soon!)
Traits in women, girls, and gender-diverse people are often subtler or internalized, often showing up as perfectionism, anxiety, and people-pleasing rather than obvious hyperactivity or social withdrawal. This contributes to underdiagnosis and late recognition.
→ Learn more: “Neurodivergent Women: The Hidden Signs” (Blog post coming soon!)
Traits are natural, enduring characteristics of how a person thinks, feels, and processes the world. Traits reflect neurology, not illness. Symptoms describe experiences that are causing distress or impairment and may signal that someone needs support. Personality is the unique blend of traits, values, and learned patterns that make each person who they are.
Trauma and neurodivergence can look similar on the surface (e.g., hypervigilance, shutdowns, social withdrawal), but they stem from different causes. Many neurodivergent people also experience trauma due to chronic misunderstanding or invalidation. Healing often involves both trauma-informed and neurodiversity-affirming approaches.
→ Learn more: “Is It Autism, ADHD, Trauma, or All Three?” (Blog post coming soon!)
Self-diagnosis can be valid and empowering, especially when formal assessment is inaccessible or biased. Many adults identify through research, deep reflection, and community validation before or instead of clinical testing. What matters most is self-understanding and informed support.
→ Learn more: “Is Self-Diagnosis Valid? Understanding Identity vs. Label” (Blog post coming soon!)
It’s normal to feel a mix of relief, confusion, grief, and clarity after a diagnosis. Give yourself time to process and explore what this new understanding means for you. Many people start by learning about their traits, connecting with others who share similar experiences, and noticing what environments, routines, and supports help them feel regulated and authentic. It can be helpful to think of a diagnosis as a framework that can guide self-compassion, accommodations, and a life that fits your brain rather than forcing your brain to fit your life.
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